Dilemma of the Day

Posted on 2007-07-31

What, oh what should I do.  I've made arrangements to take dear old dad to St. Louis to see his sister in a couple of weeks.  In the meantime, however, I found out that Kyler has double header softball games on both the Sat. and the Sun. we're supposed to be gone.  I've made tentative arrangements for her care (I gave her the choice of s'ball or going w/us) for 2 of the 4 days we're supposed to be gone and was going to get to work on the other two but then Payten found out that her ODP soccer tryouts are, yep, the Sunday we're supposed to be gone.  That is something that really can't be rescheduled.  Payten says that as long as Ky is w/her, she'd be OK w/ the two of them staying alone for the 4 days but I just don't feel completely comfortable with that.  Ray's been having some health problems so I don't want to ask him to stay w/the girls even though I know he would.  There really isn't another time we can go to St. Louis b/c Ryann's school has started and I hate to tell dad that the timing isn't right (mostly b/c of the guilt trip he'll lay on me) even though he last saw his sister on the 4th of July. 

Sunny Saturday

Posted on 2007-07-21

Today was one of the most laid-back days we've had in a long days and totally a family day at that.  A day that I'll look back and smile on....Only bummer part was that I forgot my camera. 

There is an older couple in church that babysat alot for Payten and Kyler when they were just babies.  They occasionally watch the girls now for a bit if the older ones aren't home but are now in their mid 80's.  Anyway, a friend of theirs owns a pontoon boat that he he keeps out at Big Creek Lake and we all went out on it today....just a nice, sunny, 72 degree cruise and some stops for fishing.  Golden child Jaden caught the one and only fish!!  A tiny little something or other that we threw back but fun just the same.

Payten, who is usually far too cool to hang with us for an entire day, did.  Jaden locked the keys in the car but I found out that I still have 1 AAA lock out service left on my membership which expires next month (between flat tires and lock-outs we get our money's worth each year).

Tomorrow is Ryann's little birthday party.  19 days late but we've tried having her parties on the date before but everyone is always busy with 4th of July stuff.  This year we are going to High School Musical at the DSM Playhouse.  She is just having two friends come along.  She does better in small groups and frankly, so do I.  Plus it will be a "whole family" day again and with just 2 friends we fit perfectly into one whole row....one more person would have thrown the balance off!

I spent recent hours planning vacations.   My dad told me recently that there were three things he wanted to do before he died one being visiting his sister in St. Louis (we are going there in August), the second being going to the Crystal Cathedral in California (over Christmas break) and the final one visiting Billy Graham's library in North Carolina.  I think he'd like to visit my cousin Julie in Oregon again too but she's up and moved to Japan to teach for the next year and that's just a little too exotic for him (and actually me too). 

Movies, geeks, swimming, point charts and more.

Posted on 2007-07-10

I took my kids (3 youngest) to Shrek 3 on Saturday and to the aquatic center on Sunday.  After being so busy with softball for so many weeks, it's hard to think of stuff to do when we have down time.  My kids have been daycare kids from the beginning and thus, are used to being on the go and have a low threshold for boredom and sitting around at home.

Shrek 3 was OK but not as good as The Bridge to Terabithia (sp?) that we rented Friday night.  Ohhh, I cried.  I am not usually a very emotional person but when the girl died I felt so bad for her parents and for her friend.  Excellent movie but I won't watch the whole thing again b/c I hate crying.

Swimming was fun.  I actually got sunburned sitting under one of the blue canvases at the pool.  I love it now that my kids are all old enough to go off on their own---gives me a chance to get some reading done.

My new laptop has been set up courtesy of the Geek Squad.  How I wish I was the one that came up with that concept---he's probably a very rich 32 year old by now!!

Have any of you ever tried Jenny Craig's diet plan?  Ray started a week ago and lost 6 pounds already---and he only wants to lose about 20.....I've got a little more than that to lose and am thinking of giving it a try. 

The girls were driving me nuts this weekend so I began a new point sheet last night.  Money for chores and good behavior.  Money they can spend on school clothes, etc.  I do really well w/these incentive plans for about 2 weeks and then it gets to be a pain to follow them but this time I'm making the girls more responsible for filling out their own stuff.  Hopefully that'll work better.

Payten's in northern Minnesota for a week at Leech Lake w/a friend's family. 

xtreme talent

Posted on 2007-07-06

I'm in another blogging dearth stage.  There really isn't much to write about.  Softball is over.  Summer is hot.  We had alot of fun on the 4th of July---our particular community has a huge bash for the 4th and we live just a few blocks from party central.  They have a huge parade that literally goes behind our house, a fairly large carnival and fireworks that again, are shot off at the pond behind our house.  All of this makes my house the place to be on the 4th.  Several friends came over and we had about a zillion kids total.  I think I'll be picking up the metal sparkler sticks for the next 6 months!  They are one of the few types of fireworks legal in Iowa so the kids each did probably about 30 and multiply that by the 25 or so kids that were here---you get the idea!!

The only other item of recent note is the foray Payten and I took into the world of modeling scams.  I know I've said this before but Payten truly is drop dead gorgeous.  I wish I could take the credit for this but she really is the spitten image of her dad and for everything else he was, he was certainly a looker---probably still is but I haven't seen him for sev. years.  Anyway, since she was little everyone was always saying that she should model.  I half heartedly looked into some different things over the years but they always sounded like scams---pay for these classes and we'll help you find jobs sort of deals. 

A couple of weeks ago there was an add in the paper by this 'new' company who promised 'no classes, etc. to pay for'.  We went down to the Embassey Suites (if you're ever in DSM, I'd recommend it, It's beautiful!) and sat through a couple of meetings that sounded really convincing until they told us that for $329 we should really buy a web page from them for exposure---They promised that there was local modeling work for catalogs, etc. but that models either need comp cards that they could do on their own or pay the $329 to them for a website that they'd set up for you.  They then proceeded to explain how, in the long run, it would be so much cheaper to do the website.   In a moment of weakness, I actually did this but immediately thought better of it and started to do some Internet research.  Turns out, according to the BBB, the guy running the place, Kerry Killowitz, has run several other modeling 'agencies' through the years and it seems like when the complaints start rolling in, he simply hangs a new name on his door.  Yes, Xtreme Talent is new but in name only.  The company's main source of income is from the 'models' paying for this website NOT from the modeling jobs.  Evidently the company does secure a few models a little bit of work but it sounds like most are never able to break even on their investment---$329 in Des Moines but over $1000 in some other cities---they must do there research and know what people are willing to pay or able to pay in the various communities they recruit in.  Anyhow, luckily I discovered this within the 3 day time period that one has to terminate any contact and other than the $25 stop payment fee on the check, am not out of anything.  I wonder how many of the others in the room have been so lucky?  All told, it was really a good lesson for my daughter about how if something sounds too good to be true, it probably is and we're both a bit wiser for the experience.

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